You are here for one of two reasons:
- You’re a bachelorette looking to plan your own bash
- You’re in desperate need of planning a party for a friend
If you fall under the second category, there is a chance you are quite stumped on figuring out what to do for your supposed BFF. Maybe you know her too well and simply cannot decide on what of the many activities you have to choose from that she’d like more, right? Doubtful, yes; in fact, chances are you’re scrambling because you don’t know your bachelorette as well as you thought you did. How do you rectify this in such a short period of time without her finding out? It isn’t easy, but you can just sit back for a moment and take a look at these failsafe ways of finding out more about the bachelorette in question.
Talk to the Groom-to-Be
It seems pretty simplistic, but many people overlook this easy method. Though some grooms are beyond clueless, you may be surprised as to what insight the groom may have on his blushing bride. Think about it – he’s spent all this time entertaining her and buying her the things she loves, chances are he’s bound to have at least a little knowledge of what she does and does not want out of an evening out.
There’s no trick to this method. Just make sure the bride-to-be is nowhere near when you ask. To think her BFF of many years needs to go to the man in her life for advice could insult her.
Scout her movie collection
Silly, we know, but you can find a lot out about a person by looking at their DVD collection. If you find that your bachelorette is a hoarder of Disney and Pixar classics, you may want to forego the stripping cop and penis cake. On the other hand, if you find yourself skimming through a sea of porn and questionable films, one stripper may not be enough!
Okay… Drastic scenarios, but you get the idea. The raunchier and more off-color the collection, the more inclined you should be to arrange something at a place like Hunk Mansion
Check Facebook and Twitter
We’re not talking about stalking her wall; we’re talking about digging through her “likes” and “follows”. Who and what a person pays attention to on these social media outlets will be a great judge of character. Much like checking out their DVD collection, if you come across a slew of religious pages, you may get the idea that an inflatable phallus is not the route to go.
Be careful, though; sometimes people arbitrarily “like” certain things, so make sure your check is thorough. There could be one or two “nice” pages amidst a plethora of raunch.
Ask friends of Bachelorette
You may be the best friend – or so you think – but there is always a chance that other friends may know something you don’t. Don’t worry – that doesn’t make you any less of a friend, it just happens that certain people draw out different sides of people. Before you go questioning friends, though, you need to make sure you aren’t going to question someone that will turn right around and run to the bride-to-be. Don’t approach anyone that you know will blabber. Stick to the tight lipped individuals that you know have the bachelorette’s best in mind.
A Girls Night Out
Here’s a novel idea – Go directly to the source! Take her out one weekend and strike up some pleasant conversations that may give away bits of her personality. Don’t give away that you’re digging for information. It’s important to be sly with what you do or say. It may even help to let her decide what you guys do. You will definitely get a feel for the things she enjoys by giving her the opportunity to decide.
Go through her underwear
While it’s normal to dig through DVDs, the same cannot be said about going through someone’s underwear. Unfortunately, what a person wears at the core is the perfect look into what kind of individual they really are. To accomplish this method, you will have to be crafty.
If you’re lucky, you can talk her into putting on a “fashion show” of sorts for you, but some girls may be a little self conscious in front of friends. If this is a no-go, you are going to have to move quickly when the opportunity arises. Hang out at her place one night and try to get her to do something for you – get you a drink from the kitchen or anything else that gets her out of the room – or simply wait for her to use the bathroom. In this short timeframe, you need to act and dig through her unmentionables to try and find that little shred of evidence that will show your friend’s true side.
If you find a slew of lingerie and teddies, then it’s safe to say she’s got a bit of a wild side. Adversely, a drawer filled with granny panties is the first sign of a prudish lass.
You probably don’t have a lot of time, so we’d recommend you get working on your strategy right away. While you’re thinking of what method(s) to use, take a look at all of our packages and deals we offer here at Bachelorette Vegas!
By “Mark LoProto“